First of all (and Please don't take offense) But what that man did to you IS considered rape. You are still a child and what he did was wrong, whether you consented or not. I know you don't need to hear this from me, but I am concerned and HAD to help you answer this. I ask that you please think very long and hard about this whole situation and consider your and the (possible) baby's well-being before his. PP will give you an exam, they have a privacy policy that protects girls like you (who want to keep this a secret) from others finding out. (dr.s do as well by the way as long as it will not cause the patient or anyone else harm by keeping such secrets) It's an oath they must swear to! And this goes for any situation medically. PP will even ask you what alias to go by and if it is okay to contact you at home. For example: If you tell them no, they cannot contact you at home, you will only contact them. OR- if you say it is okay to contact you, you can tell them to go by a code name (whatever you want) So only you and they know who it really is calling. Second, I'm not sure how they go about it asking about the father, you can tell them pretty much anything you want. Best Wishes and I hope that all turns out well in the end!Can you go to Planned Parenthood and give them a false name?
Planned parenthood is confidential. They will not tell anyone. You dont need to fake a name. And they wont call the police unless you wanted them to.
k well if you dot want the cops called on him don't tell duh and yes you can get it so your parents wont find out your results it is illegal for them to release that info with out your consent but just remember if you are you are going to have to tell them also you can lie about you name as well i know because i have just know that there is a chance you test will cost around 30 dollars
you don't have to give them you correct name or who you slept with. they are just goin gto ask you genralized questions. But if a 32 year old did get you pregnant he is probably going to get caught and go to jail. There is no reason why he should be sleeping with you.
Yes, you can go to Planned Parenthood anonymously. What concerns me is that you are sleeping with a 32 year old man sweetie you have your whole life ahead of you leave him alone. Have you ever thought to yourself why does a 32 year old man want me? Because he can not find a woman his own age that is naive enough to sleep with him wihtout protection. When you go to planned parenthood get on some time of birth control. If you are worried about your mom finding out try depo provera (the shot). And Always Always use a condom no matter what the guy has to say. Good Luck
i think u could give a false name but u dont have to because planned parenthood serves teens anonymously already. they will ask u for i.d. and they will ask if you want your parents to know. they wont ask who the father is. i'm not goin to ask why in the world you were with a 32 year old, but i will say that it is wrong on so many levels, there's no excuse for it. not one. but yes it is statitory rape and not a jury on the world would have sympathy for him. so i suggest u let him kno because abortion is $400+.
this happend to my best friend too exept the whole pregant thing and now shes a major slut cuz the 32 year old took her virginity.
YEAH! Good one hitting up the mature married men! i salute you!
You are not a sicko you were taken advantage of. A 32 year old man is old enough to know better than to have sex with a 16 year old. He knew your age, he knew he was doing something extremely wrong. You need to tell your mom so that this man can get some help. You said you watch his kids, how do you know he hasn't done this before? He needs help just as much as you do. Don't try to protect him. What if he did this to one of his kids friends?
In most states, PP is anonymous. They do not tell your parents anything and they send letters home in plain envelopes OR if you have a cell phone you can use that as your only method of contact. But you don't need to use a pseudonym, actually they sometimes ask for ID before you even enter the building. You also do not have to tell them that the father of this potential child is 32 years old.
You can give them your actual name and you have the right for them to keep it all confidential unless there is any serious problems. Though you are right about it being wrong (very wrong actually) you do not have to tell them. Good luck and try to stick to guys your own age.
I'm pretty sure by law they're not allowed to tell your folks. It might depend on where you live. And also if you don't want anyone to find out you slept with a 32 year old, don't tell them.
If I am correct planned parenthood doesn't tell your parents. Because when you go there or to an OBGYN you are an adult and you don't need your parents and they can't tell your parents anything unless you give them permission to.
you can give them a fake number fake anything if u would like.. i got preggo at 16 and went there and i signed a paper saying i dont want them calling my house.. dont know if they still do that but im sure they do.. they wont tell your parents!!! and u dont have to tell them who u slept with.. if it wasnt rape and u dont want him gettin in trouble i wouldnt say anything about his age... :) good luck
Oh Sweetie, don't let anyone make you feel bad about what you've done. Whats done is done right or wrong. Hold you head up and go take care of your business. Planned Parenthood is definitely the best place to turn. Call them and ask the questions that you are asking here, except for the 32 year old partner part. That's a whole different issue.
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